Emptiness that bond.

An empty space somehow being ignored by us for some reason.
or avoided, on certain occasion.

Empty corner without eye-candy vase of flowers. empty Sunday without anything (meaningful) to do. a jar of loneliness without filling of attention. an empty heart without tender from someone special. or empty view of friendship portrait on the table of ignorance. auch. get the idea?

it's about the unused moment or space in our life.

I'm not surely know why but maybe the definition of empty mean so lame or sucks for somebody. but not for me nowadays. went through series of rough life plot for being nobody, I come to know that whether it's a physical space or emotion metaphor of spaces in our life, an empty space between something or some situation actually served a purpose on our twenty-four-seven life routine. for me, an empty space or distance is a some form of solution to embrace a situation that usually healed by (or related with) time. I tend to blame this part before and always thought that any empty or unused time or spaces is a wasted moment in my not so optimized life. but living a life filled with blames is such a pathetic life i can see. i try not to live that way. try OK?

An empty space in our room sometime balanced the crowded layout or loosen a tight perspective. an empty space between two heart sometimes heal any hurts - with the help of time. a given empty space between guilt or despair can bond the crack of feeling. or tie the loosen relation knots. or simply glued the gap of separated feeling caused by confused mind. sound simple?

Well, it is though. some even naturally done.

Talk about empty space in terms of feeling, surely all of us had experienced the feeling of missing something, or someone. missing something we used to hate or like. or lost in sense of feeling when not seeing, doing or what ever nature we used to before. and it come to no surprise when actually that very feeling is ignited by the empty space or distance we spared or went through. as a matter of fact: we ought to missed a subject when there's a distance in time or space existed.

When everything started went awry or no longer taste sweet, that space is where the air we need are at. the familiarity, the boring everyday-i-see-your-faken-face feeling can create some tense or negativity. the easily expected word, text or action executed can make the sweetness of a relationship, routine or nature turn sour if not dull. give it a break. let some distance flow in between to spark again the like-new feeling. people tend to appreciate us more when we no longer around or being away for some times or distance. no, i'm not talking about start doing it (creating a space or distance) but we should appreciate any space existed during any moment of life (love, friendship. etc). it's existed for a reason. appreciate it. it's like a chance to be grabbed and filled wisely (with something not related maybe?). carpe diem.

That is very why i'm now appreciated any empty space. for fate sake surely dude.

By the way, pardon my absence. i'm out of town lately so i can't post any update. anybody..aa, like missing me or something? heh. iggy that part. I just filling some space between us with some bonding attempt. does it work?